Friday, February 10, 2006

介意?

分了手,不一定要做朋友,也不一定是敵人。他,只是一個過去而已。感情這回事,我從來都看得很開,受傷了,找幾個好朋友哭幾場便沒事。世界沒有他也一樣會轉。舊的不去,新的不來,這句話,我深信不疑。

前度男友有新女朋友的消息,對我來說不算什麼。男人到了四十歲還有本錢,何況他有的是金錢和青春,有新女朋友沒什麼問題。友人說他的女朋友怎樣怎樣,比不上我。我知道他這番話是要令我好過點。坦白說,我並不介意。我是什麼貨色,大家有眼得見,有耳得聽,比我漂亮的、溫柔體貼的大有人在,我又不是要靠這張臉吃飯,我根本不會介意她比我漂亮,比我可愛。如果我是那麼介意,我一早就跳樓自殺吧?

他已經是一個過去,我不介意他有新女朋友。因為無論這個過去變成怎樣,始終是一個過去,對現在或將來的我都沒有意義。發生過的事,無法從我的記憶裡刪除。我對事情感到遺憾,卻不介意,大家也不用替我介意,儘管大大方方的說好了。

3 comments:

Anonymous said...

夠瀟灑,我撐你.
-kawai

Anonymous said...

I agree with you la.
Don't understand why people care about their exes so much (unless they still love/like them)

One of my friends told me she came across my ex with a girl in HK. They all said they were surprised that I didn't ask anything, e.g if the girl was pretty. I said, "it's none of my business la."

True? hehe

yogi said...

In my opinion.. it's not worth caring. :)